How I Support My Daughter’s Creativity Using Behavioral Science
Creativity isn’t just a personality trait—it’s a set of behaviors and cognitive skills that can be nurtured over time. As a mom, artist, and behavior analyst, I intentionally use evidence-based strategies to support my daughter’s creative development. From structuring the environment to reinforcing effort and exposure to the arts, these small, consistent practices help shape her identity as a creative thinker—and they’re simple enough for any caregiver to incorporate at home.
Here are 6 science-backed strategies I use to support her creative development—rooted in behavior analysis, motherhood, and a whole lot of heart.
1. Remove Barriers
Creativity thrives when it’s easy to access. In our home, developmentally appropriate art materials are available in several places—little stations that allow her to jump in whenever inspiration strikes. By reducing the effort it takes to get started, I’m giving her independence and saying, your creativity matters here.
2. Reinforce the Identity of “Artist”
I use reinforcement, by providing praise and attention, in a way that builds her identity as a creative person. It’s not just about saying “good job,” but really noticing what she’s doing:
“I love how you blended these colors together.”
“I saw how focused you were on this project.”
“How did you come up with that idea? You are such an artist.”
These kinds of comments reinforce effort, curiosity, and her unique style—far more powerful than praising a finished product.
3. Shaping: Baby Steps Count
When we do art together, I keep my expectations aligned with her age and experience. We celebrate the trying just as much as the finishing. If something’s new, I stay low-pressure and high-praise. Sometimes we end early, sometimes it gets messy, sometimes she loses interest—and that’s okay. Creativity isn’t about control; it’s about freedom to explore and grow.
4. Modeling
She sees me make art too—and just as importantly, she sees me protect the time for it. I’ll often set her up with something next to me and say, “This is my art time too. Let’s work side by side.” It’s not always perfect, but it’s real. Modeling creativity as something important enough to make space for sends a powerful message: this isn’t just for kids—it’s for life.
5. Pairing Creativity with Connection
I make things for her and with her: birthday banners, little paintings, handmade cards, decorations for her room. Over time, this builds a warm association—she learns that art can be a way to give, to connect, and to make everyday moments feel magical.
6. Exposure Without Pressure
From museum trips to live performances, I look for opportunities to immerse her in the arts. But at this stage, my only real goal is to make the experience positive. That means lots of snacks, short visits, low expectations, and the freedom to run around outside afterward. It doesn’t always look “refined,” but it’s joyful—and that’s what matters.
Creativity isn’t just a skill—it’s a mindset, a form of expression, and a lifelong source of joy. My hope is that by planting these seeds early, I’m not just raising an artist—I’m nurturing a confident, curious, and connected little human.
And honestly? She’s teaching me just as much as I’m teaching her.
